Don’t confuse Day Planners with Goal Planners!

We all need to have a reliable system to track our appointments, activities and events.  I find it makes no discernable difference whether it is a note pad, yellow sticky notes, a full page Day Planner from any of the numerous vendors (Franklin Covey, Day Runner, etc), smart phones, MS Outlook … whatever device you use the key is USE it!

Once that system is in place and understood and diligently utilized then one advances to the tracking and categorizing of the activities … many identify items along A B C lines, or must do’s, should do’s etc.  The prioritization process then becomes the foundation for utilization of time throughout the day.  Here is where many find the system I provide useful.  Just this morning as I met with Mike Carroll of Mike Carroll Productions (Cestcop.com) Salt Lake city, UT he was explaining how the time management system he was using wasn’t translating into real goal achievement.  His frustration was further compounded by the fact that he said he knew he was “on-time” but not “on-task.”

My system embodies all the techniques needed to successfully manage our time allotments – appointments, meetings, tasks, etc but goes beyond that and incorporates a true goal achievement process.  For many the day planner becomes the proverbial “To-Do List” and as important as that is it falls short when we review our day’s activity and notice an item or two still isn’t accomplished.  My system tracks how many times you “slide” an event into tomorrow.  Once an event has slid three times it gets flagged and then we utilize what I call our GPS.  Not the GPS that assists you to navigate through town but the GPS (Goal Planning System) that assists you to navigates to your Goal!

See Figure 1 and notice that the GPS has 10 steps.  Once you’ve been introduced to the system and learn how to use it you’ll find goal achievement becomes predictable, reliable and sustainable.  Our Annual Goals Review process incorporates the GPS system and many have found it very useful to start their year or to re-ignite their passion during the year.  We’d love to introduce you to this system and invite you to reply for a complimentary introduction to the program.

Here’s to a successful calendar and to goals that you achieve!  Have a great day …

It’s not about where you’re from … it’s all about where you’re going.

It’s not about where you’re from … it’s all about where you’re going.


Another way to think about this – it’s not about your family of origin, where you were born, to whom you were born, etc … it’s about who you walk with!  As a young boy I grew up across the river from the Philadelphia International Airport and planes were constantly flying overhead either going or coming from what I perceived as exotic and exciting places from all over the World.

A best as I can recall I was about 9 years old when at the dinner table I exclaimed proudly, “I’m going to be a pilot and fly all around the World.” The conversation seemed to stop, my mother looked at my father and he in turn looked directly into my eyes and replied, “Son, we’re farmers, we’ve been farming here for more than 150 years … you’ve been working on our farm since you’ve been 5 years old and you’re going to be a farmer for a long time to come – so get that silly notion out of your head and finish your dinner.” Let’s just say that that was one of many rainy days in my parade of ideas proffered at the dinner table as a boy.  How many parades have been similarly rained on by well meaning parents?  My estimate is, ”too many to count.”

How do I know this?  In my coaching of Corporations and the individuals within them one of my first exercises is to have my new clients write a list of what I call “Dreams” … in today’s vernacular I’m asking for their Bucket List. I ask them to return to our next session with a list of dreams they wish to accomplish in their lifetimes [for the 30 year olds I coach that’s in the next 55 years!] and sadly I get lists with 10-15 dreams.  I send them back for our next session and suggest they should be able to write at least 100 such dreams.  I further describe the potential lists as not only containing tangible items, but intangible, becoming dreams … becoming better public speakers, better partners, better parents, etc.  It’s a struggle for most people to come up 100 dreams that they’d like to achieve and in contrast, when I ask my young friends (4-5 year olds) they can come up 100’s in a few hours!

These 4 and 5 year olds haven’t been conditioned to expect limitations upon their dreams, but it won’t be long before well meaning parents, teachers, mentors, etc will begin to guide these young minds into safer, realistic paths.

STOP the cycle … allow our younger children to dream big dreams, allow our young adults to dream big dreams and allow our seasoned adults to dream big dreams and just watch the growth in our people, our society and our World.  No realistic, well meaning person would have ever allowed the concept of a man walking on the moon back in the 50’s, but I can testify to you that on that fateful day in 1969 I was a 1st lieutenant in the US Marine Corps in Advanced Flight training one month from earning my “Wings of Gold” as a Naval Aviator and launching my flying career that has been World Wide in scope and certainly achieved the dream I had the courage to express at my dinner table as a 9 yr old … and I hope every child can achieve and embrace that same sense of achievement I’m feeling and Dream BIG Dreams.

To the Soldier … life’s a battle




Live Your Dream



To the Preacher … life’s a sermon


To the Teacher … life’s a lesson

To you my friend … what is life?


That is not a rhetorical question … you chose (or should have) to be who you are.  No mandate from “on high” … no other should have power over your choice.  You alone are responsible.

I do believe from years of close observation that everyone is blessed with unique authentic talents.  Let’s agree to name them “gifts” and further to agree everyone has them.  Those who search and explore themselves from within discover what “gifts” they have and IF they align their lives with them invariably achieve success … not simply success in the World’s eyes … but deeply satisfying success – many call such success Joy!

You have a life … you have a talent/gift – please don’t waste it.  No one tells you how to live – You Do!  A good friend of mine, Jim Olsen, from Salt Lake City, UT was introduced to me by someone who described him as someone who’s “give a darn … didn’t give a DARN!”  Upon meeting with Jim he even described himself that way … followed by an emphatic – “I used to!” (and he wanted it back)

C..S. Lewis wrote – “if you want to be warm – get by a fire; if you want to be wet – get by water; if you want Joy – get by those who have Joy.”  So it is, I say it this way, if you’re not pleased with where you are in life get where you want to be, around those who support you, and allow their Joy to suffuse into your soul.  This will require change on your part.  This will require hard work; it will involve being honest with yourself; honest with those (everyone) around you; focused on the “gift” you possess.




Live Your Dream



Perhaps you remember the line in the movie “Apollo 13” when the mission director informed all of his team members, “Failure is not an option.”  In that circumstance the message was intended for “the team” but it transcends to include each and every one of us – you cannot fail until you decide to quit!


Many of us are familiar with the cliché that there are (3) types of people in the World … those who make things happen, those who watch things happen and those who have no idea – my challenge to you today is to discover who you are, what your gift is, and then focus your life on sharing that gift with those around you in all you do … become the person who knows what his or her life is about and live it!

Live large … don’t waste your gift … there is only one you in this World and I know with every fiber of my being the World needs your gift!