Coming soon … near you – “An American Citizen”

As we celebrate Memorial this year 2022 ~ I’d like to share with you “a story” “true” and inspiring:

On April 11, 1916, British troops on the front lines were visited by an imposing figure: Winston Churchill. It would be many years before Churchill became a legendary statesman, but he was already well-known, having most recently served as the First Lord of the Admiralty.

 

As Churchill went down the lines, he handed out encouragement to the young “Tommies” fighting for England. But when one particular man responded, Churchill stopped. There was something different about this soldier, and it wasn’t his tall, six-foot-two frame.

 

It was that he had an American accent.

 

His name was Harry Butters, and he was from San Francisco, California. Only twenty-four years old, he volunteered to fight for the British shortly after World War I broke out…a full two years before his own country entered the conflict. When an astonished Churchill asked how he’d managed to enlist, the young man shrugged.

 

“I just lied to ‘em and said I was British born,” he said.1

 

Impressed, Churchill invited him to dinner, a rare honor for a 2nd lieutenant in the Royal Artillery. That night, the two ate and drank champagne in Churchill’s bunker, where the future Prime Minister got a chance to learn all about this curious young officer. A man who Churchill described in his journal as “jolly” and “a pure Yank – unnaturalized, unsworn…but just as faithful” as each of his comrades.2

 

The son of a wealthy industrialist, Harry seemed destined for a life of privilege and prestige. Thanks to his family connections, he attended top colleges in both England and New Hampshire before inheriting his father’s fortune. Back home, he worked at Standard Oil for a time before buying his own ranch. Everything seemed in place for a long, healthy, comfortable life.

 

But then, in 1914, one of the most destructive wars ever seen broke out in Europe.

 

It must have been a shock to his family when Butters announced he was going to fight. After all, the conflict had nothing to do with him or the United States. What could he possibly hope to gain? But to Harry, the choice was simple. He had friends in England. Friends, he knew, who were about to be called to serve. Called to fight. Called, maybe, to lay down their lives.

 

Even though he was half a world away, Harry felt that same call.

 

Harry promptly went to England and received an officer’s commission, becoming one of the first Americans to fight in the Great War. His first taste of combat took place in September of 1915 during the Battle of Loos. The largest British attack of the year, the battle lasted nearly two weeks and resulted in nearly 60,000 Allied casualties. By the time it ended, no one could have blamed Harry for deciding to pack it in and go back home. After all, he wasn’t British, or French, or German. He was an American.

 

But Harry didn’t go back home. As he explained to his family in a letter, he was exactly where he needed to be.

 

“I find myself a soldier among millions of others in the great allied armies fighting for all I believe right and civilized and humane against a power which threatens the existence of all the rights we prize and the freedom we enjoy.

 

It may seem to you that for me, this is all quite uncalled for, that it can only mean either the supreme sacrifice for nothing or at best some of the best years of my life wasted. But I tell you that I am not only willing to give my life to this enterprise (for that is comparatively easy except when I think of you), but that I firmly believe that never will I have the opportunity to gain so much honorable advancement for my own soul, or to do so much for the cause of the world’s progress, as I am here daily.

 

I think less of myself than I did, less of the heights of personal success I aspired to climb, and more of the service that each of us must render in payment for the right to live and by virtue of which only we can progress.”1

 

So, Harry continued to serve, impressing everyone with his horsemanship and good humor. But as the months passed, the horrors of war began to take their toll. Shortly after meeting Churchill, Harry began suffering from shell shock – what we know today as Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder. He was sent away on leave to rest. Churchill, still keeping tabs on this faithful Yank, told him not to rush his recovery. But by the next month, Harry was back in his unit.

 

It was July 2, 1916. The Battle of the Somme had just begun.

 

To this day, the Somme remains one of the deadliest clashes in human history. It lasted over two months and involved over three million soldiers, of which over one million were casualties. Nevertheless, Harry threw himself into the fray with all the courage and enthusiasm he was known for. Until, on August 31, he found himself pinned down by a gargantuan barrage of German artillery. Another soldier later said, “I don’t exaggerate when I say nearly 100,000 shells dropped that day in an area of about 800 square yards.”1 But seeing that one of his men had fallen, Harry leaped into the dugout to take his place. For the next few minutes, he crouched there with a friend as shell after shell – some containing poison gas – exploded around them.

 

Finally, Harry decided it was time to fall back. But just as he made to do so, a gas shell struck his body. He died immediately – the first American to be killed defending freedom and liberty in Europe.3 He would not be the last.

 

Winston Churchill himself wrote Harry’s obituary in a London newspaper:

 

“He had seen much service on the front line and came through unscathed until in June last a bouquet of shells destroyed his post and stunned him. He could be induced to take only a week’s rest before he was back at the front, disdainful as ever of the continual threats of death. And this, quite simply, he met his fate. He was one of the brightest, cheeriest boys I have ever known. We realize his nobility in coming to the help of another country entirely of his own free will.”

 

It’s said that Harry’s funeral was attended by every man who could be spared from duty – and because no American flag could be found, the British Union Jack was draped over his casket. But only a few days before, Harry had told his chaplain what he wanted, should he fall in battle. His instructions were carried out to the letter.

 

A humble burial place, marked by a simple cross, inscribed with a singular phrase:

 

AN AMERICAN CITIZEN

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Every year, we observe Memorial Day. Every year, we pay solemn tribute to those who gave everything so that we may have everything. People like Harry Butters and the tens of thousands who came after him. Each willing to give the “supreme sacrifice.” Each devoted to “the existence of all the rights we prize and the freedoms we enjoy.” Each “rendering in payment for the right to live.”

 

Each the bearer of the greatest and most noble title any of us could ask for:

 

An American Citizen.

Is “Life Coaching” for you?

Initial Questions we explore with Coaching Prospects

 

  • Do you find yourself, “needing to prove yourself?” … Our suggestion is to “Improve Yourself”

We’ve discovered when you change your lens (just like on a camera) you can change your life – it’s your perspective that determines the outcomes you achieve.  We’ve all heard the platitude – “Achieve Balance in your Life!”   It is a popular cliché, that said, we believe that you should try “Blend vs. Balance” in your life.  For years I’ve loved to watch birds at the shorelines of lakes, rivers, oceans, etc., and have noticed some things that help me and many others in life … quit flapping and soar and you’ll observe your stress dissipating as you glide along with the currents of your surroundings.

  • When seeking solutions to your personal or professional circumstances, do you find your thoughts are “Wandering Generalities vs. Meaningful Specifics?

“There are known knowns — there are things we know we know. We also know there are known unknowns — that is to say, we know there are some things we do not know. But there are also unknown unknowns, the ones we don’t know we don’t know.” ~ Donald Rumsfeld.  As unique as our issues, solutions, and futures are there are “proven solutions” to our enigmas … we use a “four-pane window” graphic to lead us through the journey we call getting from “Unconscious Incompetence” to “Unconscious Competence

 What do you want to do? What do you want to have?  What do want to share with the World?

 Some will look at those three (3) questions and describe them as the “trifecta” of life. We’ve been asked those questions (or iterations thereof) by our parents, our teachers, and hopefully by ourselves for years … and we’ll add “a kicker’ – W H Y!  Over the many years we’ve been Coaching those three questions wrapped with a neat bow of WHY leads to success. We’ve all been through the crucible to “trial and error” and we’ve found out cuts and bruises heal.  That said, Albert Einstein told us, “The same level of thinking that got you into this problem; Can’t get you out of that problem.” History is full of examples of those who, out of frustration,  “Give Up” … IF they don’t give up, they give in! They “settle” for outcomes they could have “stood up against” … “If you fight FOR your limitations – YOU GET TO KEEP THEM!” Let’s look at that last statement again … IF you fight for your limitations ~ when you give in and say, I can’t do that, or it can’t be done, or that’s not how I was raised, etc” – then – you’ve given up, given in, quit, walked away – in other words, you’ve consigned yourself to failure. BUT (and you know what that is in our language – a “coordinating conjunction” used to connect ideas that contrast) in everyday language it means “erase everything previous to it. BUT, you don’t have to take that path … we’re here to help, we know you have the ability to change outcomes you’re not satisfied with; You don’t need to prove … you need to improve and that’s what Rezults Group, Inc is all about. Proven process, years of experience, patience, understanding, standing with you, side-by-side ~ “not with answers” instead, with support … we hold you accountable and you “Become the person you want to become” You’ll answer those (3) questions, you’ll know your “WHY” and life will be “your creation” “your goals” and “your outcomes”

  • Are you happy? – what’s your answer to that question right now?

  “Fantastic, but getting better” “Superb but still improving” Regardless of whether you are happy or not. Stay positive, but focus on improving, not where you are. Also “positivity won’t help you do anything, but it will help you do everything, better than negativity will.” ~ Zig Ziglar

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A (S+K)+G > PBC = IR (o,p) vb ~ 88%b f(c) 
IR (o,p) – Improved Results (org, personal) 
PBC – Positive Behavioral Change 
G – Goals~WHYSMART 
(s+k) – Skills & Knowledge 
A –Attitude 
vb – values&beliefs 
88%b f(c) 88% below the level of consciousness 
We start out by asking what actual results (IR) our clients want to achieve in their organizational and personal lives. If you want improved results you’ll have to do something differently] We next identify what Positive Behavioral Changes (PBC) you’ll need to implement in your life. Wouldn’t you agree that in order to achieve improved results you’ll need to behave differently? Study after study has proven that having clearly defined goals allows people to focus their energy allowing for easy adoption of the behavior changes needed to successfully complete their goals as well as maintain the sustained effort that will be required.